July 25, 2025

Legacy, Loss, and Love: A Mindful Approach to Caregiving with Jessica Smith

Legacy, Loss, and Love: A Mindful Approach to Caregiving with Jessica Smith

In this heartfelt episode of Message in the Middle, Marianne sits down with mindfulness teacher, caregiver, and dementia advocate Jessica Smith for a conversation that lives at the intersection of presence, purpose, and deep compassion.

For over two decades, Jessica has studied and practiced awareness-based meditation under the guidance of renowned spiritual teachers like Ram Dass, Sharon Salzberg, and Michael Singer. But it’s her personal journey as a long-distance caregiver for her mother, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s more than ten years ago, that has shaped her work in the most profound way.

Together, Marianne and Jessica explore:

  • The emotional layers of long-distance caregiving
  • Navigating family dynamics in the face of a loved one’s diagnosis
  • How mindfulness helps caregivers stay grounded, even on the hardest days
  • The evolving relationship between parent and child through the lens of Alzheimer’s
  • What it means to connect when memory fades
  • Finding peace in “enoughness”
  • How training as a death doula deepened Jessica’s perspective on legacy and letting go
  • Practical ways caregivers can show up for themselves when time is scarce

This episode is a beautiful reminder that even in the midst of grief, there can be grace and that mindful awareness offers a path not just to endure, but to connect more deeply.

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